{"id":8763,"date":"2013-09-12T20:00:23","date_gmt":"2013-09-13T00:00:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/deeperintomovies.net\/journal\/?p=8763"},"modified":"2013-09-10T22:22:13","modified_gmt":"2013-09-11T02:22:13","slug":"mommas-man-2008-azazel-jacobs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/deeperintomovies.net\/journal\/archives\/8763","title":{"rendered":"Momma&#8217;s Man (2008, Azazel Jacobs)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Another in an endless stretch of indie movies about young-ish aimless slacker adults. Mikey visits his parents for a few days, then just never leaves, abandoning his wife and job. Just as Jacobs&#8217; <em><a href=\"\/journal\/archives\/4594\">The GoodTimesKid<\/a><\/em> had the one kitchen dance scene that almost made the rest of the movie worth watching, this one&#8217;s got a single standout scene: Mikey has been contemplating suicide atop a steep staircase for a few days, and when he finally falls down the steps, he&#8217;s fine.<\/p>\n<p><em>Mikey:<\/em><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/journal\/image13\/mommasman1.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p>Azazel starred himself in <em>The GoodTimesKid<\/em>. He gets an actor (Mark Boren) for Mikey this time, but stars his own parents as Mikey&#8217;s parents, and shot in their apartment.  It&#8217;s possible that Lena Dunham stole all these ideas for <em><a href=\"\/journal\/archives\/7462\">Tiny Furniture<\/a><\/em>, but Dunham traded this movie&#8217;s underlit naturalism for methodical filmmaking with a more humorous script, which I admit I far preferred.<\/p>\n<p><em>Mikey\/Azazel&#8217;s parents:<\/em><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/journal\/image13\/mommasman2.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p>Mikey gets more pathetic, buying beer for teens so they&#8217;ll hang out with him, looking up old friends and acting like nothing has changed, and making up different lies for sympathy. He shows his parents the avant-garde film he made (can&#8217;t remember Ken Jacobs&#8217; reaction to this) and generally reverts to a time when he had fewer responsibilities, until his wife and parents figure out what&#8217;s going on and kick his ass back into gear. I was annoyed at Mikey while watching this, but a month later I&#8217;m living at my parents&#8217; house with an ever-present, narrowly-resistable urge to drop everything and play with legos for a week straight, so I guess I know how he feels.<\/p>\n<p>Jacobs (a big Cassavetes fan, btw):<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I divided the story into three acts, starting with the person who doesn&#8217;t want to leave, leading to the person who can&#8217;t leave, and finishing with the person becoming able to leave.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Cinema Scope:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>It&#8217;s also importantly distinct from the recent obsession in American movies with man-children, reaching its probable Waterloo with the generally castigated <em>Step Brothers<\/em>, movies that want to appeal to audience men-boys\u2014many of them of the lower sub-species of fan boys, that sad, sad type plaguing the land\u2014and invite them to both laugh at, and laugh with, the bizarrely stunted culture they&#8217;ve created for themselves in a Lucasized Hollywood. In fact, Aza has made the ideal counterpoint film to that whole decrepit phenomenon, since Boren&#8217;s Mikey\u2014after burying himself for days in comic books, pages of horrible song lyrics he penned to his first lost love, and losing himself in a now-vanished New York\u2014finally, with a little nudge from Ken and Flo, leaves his old home and returns to his wife and baby. Responsibility, contra infantilized Hollywood, is the new life force.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Another in an endless stretch of indie movies about young-ish aimless slacker adults. Mikey visits his parents for a few days, then just never leaves, abandoning his wife and job. 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